Lately I am hearing so many stories about heartbreak. The stories seem the same She feels like he is crushing her spirit, he is no longer passionate about her, he says critical and hurtful words, he treats her like an option, and the list of reasons goes on.
What surprises me the most is that when the girl finally walks away from all the hurt the guy is often surprised.
What he doesn't realize is that she left a dozen warnings maybe more that she was broken, that she could not fight anymore, that he has crushed her spirit. Instead of fighting for her he lets her walk away.
What guys don't realize is that it is often quite simple to keep the girl you love. Of course there are the obvious things like being faithful, honesty, and just don't be a big jerk! However there are little things that you can do to make her feel your love and devotion.
When you do these things you are more likely to keep her then lose her and the relationship will strengthen. In the end you may even experience the most amazing relationship of your life.
It's the little things that matter. It's the gentle touch of your hand, how you wipe the hair out of her eyes, how you stare into her eyes, the random hug or kiss throughout the day, the simple text letting her know you are thinking about her.
Text her every morning to say Good Morning Beautiful! You don't have to do all these things every single day but most definitely make sure you are doing random little 'I love you's, I see you, I acknowledge your beauty things' everyday. Make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. That she is your dream woman. That you want to runaway with her.
Women want to feel beautiful. We especially want to feel beautiful by the man we love. Remember what is special to her. Show her you care about these things.
Ask questions about her family, her children, her work, whatever she is passionate about. When you genuinely take an interest in her life her heart opens and love flows. Notice the small things. How you think it's cute how she looks when she wakes up, how her nail polish has sock marks in it or how she works hard to accomplish her latest goal.
These things may seem unimportant but it truly is the small things that you notice that matter. Have fun together and act silly! Jump off the boat and do cannon balls, playfully tease her or tell her how she makes you smile every time you think of her.
Life should be enjoyed so why not do it together! Grab her and kiss her like you can't get enough of her. When you kiss tell her it was better than you dreamed it would be. There should always be a little romance sprinkled into your relationship. Don't take her spark away. A woman's spirit is gentle, treat it with respect and love.